Carolyn Lackey
The Sweetest Day
Yesterday was amazing. The air was cool. The fountain was gurgling. I was surrounded by three people who knew my mother the very best...
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Becoming
the
Meems
the transformation is complete. I've become my mother.
by carolyn lackey
Becoming
Meems
the
Carolyn Lackey
- Jul 31, 2020
- 4 min
It's All in the Packaging
Yesterday, I did something new. I gift-wrapped my mother. Let me explain. Alan went by the funeral home to pick up "Meems." That was...
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Carolyn Lackey
- Jul 29, 2020
- 5 min
Enjoying a Cup of Coffee
Mom's home on Rockview Drive in Waco had a garage-turned-screened-in-porch that overlooked her lush backyard. The reason I know that the...
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Carolyn Lackey
- Jul 24, 2020
- 6 min
This Week's Journey
So this week it happened. Meems relinquished her withered and worn little body and entered into the full glory of God. On Tuesday, July...
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Carolyn Lackey
- May 31, 2020
- 3 min
365 Days
This marks the eve of the 365-day anniversary of Meems' "Transitioning" to Heaven. On March 16th, 2020 I decided to no longer kiss her...
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Carolyn Lackey
- May 20, 2020
- 3 min
Goulash
"How does goulash sound for when it's my turn to make Sunday night supper for the youth group?" Meems was like that. She planned her...
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Carolyn Lackey
- Apr 14, 2020
- 2 min
An Easter to Remember
I didn't decorate the house for Easter this year which is saying a lot because I have amassed a considerable amount of vintage Easter...
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Carolyn Lackey
- Apr 3, 2020
- 4 min
Five Good Things Revisited
[I wrote this in 2015 just after I moved Mom into memory care which is its own kind of quarantine. It reminds me to look for the good...
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by Carolyn Lackey
- Mar 19, 2020
- 3 min
What a Day of Rejoicing it Will Be
Many of you have asked how Meems is doing and whether or not I've been able to visit her. She spends each day in a state of suspended...
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by Carolyn Lackey
- Feb 24, 2020
- 3 min
How it All Began
My mother met Leonard in September of 2010. I wrote this blog post in April of 2011. It marked the beginning of a dear, dear...
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by Carolyn Lackey
- Jan 12, 2020
- 2 min
94
On Thursday, January 9, 2020, Helen Katherine Williams Kinzbach, aka The Meems, turned 94 years old. NINE-TEE-FOUR. It was a low-key...
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by Carolyn Lackey
- Dec 15, 2019
- 4 min
The Sameness of Every Day
We sat in a park watching our toddlers sliding down the small red plastic slide and scooting through the little yellow tunnel. As...
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by Carolyn Lackey
- Oct 21, 2019
- 3 min
Crown Jewels
But first...many of you have tentatively asked how Meems is doing. I say "tentatively" because it's been a while since my last update,...
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Carolyn Lackey
- Sep 6, 2019
- 3 min
Absent
That was then. This is most of the time. People often ask me how Meems is doing. I need to start pulling out my phone and showing this...
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Carolyn Lackey
- Jul 1, 2019
- 2 min
Imposter
Yesterday, I entered Mom’s cozy little room, set down the insulated fabric picnic hamper that now serves as my embroidery basket, and...
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Carolyn Lackey
- Jun 20, 2019
- 3 min
The Solitude of Stitchery
I did something rather odd this morning. I trudged upstairs to the attic, retrieved a wrinkled, ancient chambray shirt from the...
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Carolyn Lackey
- Jun 14, 2019
- 5 min
Eleven Lives
I was fifteen years old the first time that I thought that my mother was at death's door. It was the summer of 1971. Mom had just come...
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by Carolyn Lackey
- Jun 5, 2019
- 3 min
Mama Cammareri
The breath had almost totally left her body. She was as white as snow. And then she completely pulled back from death and stood up and...
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by Carolyn Lackey
- Jun 1, 2019
- 4 min
Finding the Funny
My sister, Kathy, taught me to "find the funny" in life. Back in the day, we laughed with each other and at each other until we...
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by Carolyn Lackey
- May 11, 2019
- 5 min
Broken Home
Broken home. I heard those words during homeroom my senior year of high school - 1975 - in reference to me. My face burned hot with...
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