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Becoming
the
Meems
the transformation is complete. I've become my mother.
by carolyn lackey
Becoming
Meems
the


by Carolyn Lackey
May 11, 20195 min read
Broken Home
Broken home. I heard those words during homeroom my senior year of high school - 1975 - in reference to me. My face burned hot with...
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by Carolyn Lackey
May 3, 20192 min read
Time in a Bottle
This photo sums up Meems' existence. She's become a cuddly lump of blankets in a hushed room with soft rays of sunlight filtering...
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by Carolyn Lackey
Apr 8, 20193 min read
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"Why am I in prison?" Meems asked in a quiet, flat voice while pensively chewing on a tiny bite of a donut hole. Huh?! My brows wrinkled...
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by Carolyn Lackey
Mar 29, 20195 min read
Goldilocks
Alan and I flew to Chicago yesterday for a visit with our firstborn. It’s been a weird trip so far. Two Days Ago: Alan called me at...
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by Carolyn Lackey
Mar 27, 20192 min read
Is or Was?
Now that Meems has entered into the Age of Slumber, not much happens in her day to day world. Her "present tense" has dwindled...
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Carolyn Lackey
Mar 22, 20195 min read
But For a Potted Hibiscus
Please indulge me another "blast from the past." This happened nine years ago when Meems decided it was time to move to Lubbock. I have...
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by Carolyn Lackey
Mar 1, 20193 min read
Moving Miss Helen: The Reprise
Note: I started looking over my old, dusty blog, "Finding the Funny" the other day. Some of you who are new to the Meems Scene may be...
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by Carolyn Lackey
Feb 20, 20193 min read
The Letter
It had been a long, long time since I had received a letter. A real letter handwritten on pretty stationery. When I saw the return...
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by Carolyn Lackey
Feb 10, 20192 min read
My Apologies, Mr. Matisse
Meems' world is quiet and still. The woman who used to call me to tell me all about her dream the night before and what each lady at...
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Carolyn Lackey
Jan 29, 20197 min read
Meems and the Kittens
The summer after my fifth grade year, my parents divorced. The year was 1969. Meems, Kathy (my younger sister) and I moved to Waco to...
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by Carolyn Lackey
Dec 10, 20183 min read
A Sentimental Journey
A few days ago, a friend shared a picture of one of her favorite sentimental Christmas decorations. Hers was an old photo of "Mawmaw and...
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by Carolyn Lackey
Nov 21, 20181 min read
You're My Grandson?!
During the time that Meems was still highly verbal but dementia recycled her thoughts like broken records, she told this story often. ...
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Carolyn Lackey
Nov 1, 20182 min read
Did You Hear What I Heard?
Last Sunday, Alan and I slipped into Meems' room during nap time. She was fully enjoying some mighty sweet slumber. Since the move to...
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by Carolyn Lackey
Oct 4, 20182 min read
Automa Ticlly
I woke up early this morning and opened the Amazon box that contained my newest toy. A baby monitor. Make that a Meems monitor. Meems'...
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by Carolyn Lackey
Sep 30, 20182 min read
It Finally Happened
I'd been dreading it. It finally happened today. Meems didn't know my name. I ran by for a quick visit after church. The kitchen of...
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by Carolyn Lackey
Sep 27, 20182 min read
Home is Where the Finial Is
Meems' move went really smoothly yesterday despite the cold and rain. My favorite moving company, C&D moving, arrived as the clock...
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by Carolyn Lackey
Sep 25, 20184 min read
New Kid on the Block
I'm feeling really emotional this evening. After lots of prayer and consideration, I'm moving Meems to a new facility tomorrow. We have...
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by Carolyn Lackey
Sep 19, 20182 min read
Three Mystery Men
On my way into town a couple of weekends ago after a girl trip with my niece, my first stop was to visit Missy Meems. When I arrived at...
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Carolyn Lackey
Aug 23, 20182 min read
For Where Your Pictures Are
For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also. Matthew 6:21 You can tell a lot about a person when you forage through all the...
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by Carolyn Lackey
Jul 25, 20186 min read
She's Still Patting
I've been going through old pictures over the past few weeks pulling "The Best of Meems" for future use. It's best to do this now while...
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